for stepmoms who want to thrive amongst the extra stress
Feel more confident and in control, improve relationships and do what's best for you and your unique stepfamily dynamic.
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REDEFINE
STEPMOTHERHOOD
REDEFINE
STEP-
MOTHERHOOD
You don't have to do it alone.
What would it be like to feel confident in your role as a stepmom? To have the tools to improve relationships, minimize conflict and feel less triggered about things that are outside of your control?
What if you felt confident in your role with your stepkids, your partner and even the ex?
What would it feel like to wear your stepmom title like a badge of honour instead of like it's this dirty little secret...
IT'S POSSIBLE (SERIOUSLY IT IS). I'M HERE TO SHOW YOU HOW TO MAKE IT HAPPEN.
hey stepmom,
challenges you might be facing:
You feel insecure and like an outsider in your stepfamily dynamic. You feel good enough until you're not. Damned if you do, damned if you don't.
You find yourself obsessing over the ex. What she may/may not do, how she feels about you, how she parents, and what curve balls she's going to throw next. You think about her WAY more than you should.
You feel like you have no control over your life. Your life is dictated by an agreement you had no part in creating. It's all about the ex, the kids and their life before you. You just want to book a damn vacation without having to ask permission or look at the custody schedule.
“Honestly, working with Jamie changed my WHOLE DANG LIFE.”
- sarah from saskatoon
You Need
There is no one size fits all approach to thriving as a stepmom. We're going to say "screw the rules" and create a plan that works for you.
The big question should be "is what I am doing working?" "Is our family thriving?" "Are my relationships solid?" "Am I proud of my reactions?" If not, I'll get you there.
Even the ones that you have no control over (cough cough... the ex, the past, how the kids feel about this new life). No more getting hijacked by your latest stepfamily stressor.
SO LET ME INTRODUCE MY LIVE STEPMOM MASTERMIND
Redefine Stepmotherhood
An exclusive coaching program for stepmoms ready to redefine stepmotherhood and live a KICK-ASS life amongst the extra stress.
Course breakdown:
Module 1
AUDIT + DEEP DIVE: We're going to identify your stepfamily stressors and audit your stepfamily life. This process often blows stepmoms mind. You're going to get super clear about what's working, what's not, what's triggering you and the WHY behind it all.
Teach Me Plz
Module 2
COLD HARD TRUTHS: You'll dive into the why of your stepfamily dynamic. I'm talking your partner's reactions, how the ex shows up, all things stepkids, in-laws and mutual family/friends. Empathy in stepfamily life is key. You don't need to agree with someone else's perspective, but understanding it will help set the foundation for change. This may not feel important, but it is!
Hmm... really eh?
Module 3
BOUNDARIES + DISENGAGING: These are the buzz words in the stepfamily space. Here's the truth. The way you set boundaries and disengage (if it's the right move for you) can either improve relationships or make things a helluva lot worse.
I'm going to show you how to do it right way.
Oh, I need this
Module 4
YOUR MARRIAGE: GET ALIGNED. Your partner is the reason you're a stepmom in the first place. This week we'll dive into marriage tips to help you feel aligned and on the same page (even when you're not).
Wow really? I'm in
Module 5
CREATE YOUR PLAN. It's time to make the plan and be the expert on your own life. You'll take all the info you've learned and create a plan that works for you. Disengaging, your relationship with the ex, boundaries, your stepkids, what you will and will not do, how you will and will not respond. No more feeling like you've been punched in the gut. It's time to take back control.
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How does this sound?
THE RESULTS
01
Feel more confident and secure about your role as a wife and a stepmom
02
Create healthy relationships even with those who don't want a healthy relationship with you
03
Stop with the ex wife / stepmom pissing match. You're done with the competition.
04
Improve the vibe of your home and create a safe, healthy space for you and your family.
05
Set boundaries and disengage in a way that facilitates connection + improves relationships
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HOW IT WORKS
no. 01
You'll Receive Access A New Module Each Week
This gives you the time to go through all the content and implement the strategies needed to set the foundation for change.
no. 02
You'll Get Access To A Workbook
Each week I'll give you tips, strategies and mindset shifts to implement into your life. You'll also get prompts that will help you dive into the WHY behind your stepfamily stress. I highly recommend printing the workout out! It's going to be your bible for handling stepfamily stress
no. 03
5 Weeks of Videos + Content
I will walk you through my step-by-step framework to help you set boundaries, disengage, improve relationships and create a plan that works for you and your unique stepfamily life.
from DENISE:
"I honestly don't know where I'd be without your program. It made all the difference in my life"
I'M IN
A year from now, how do you want to feel about your stepfamily life?
Change starts now my friend ...
"Working with Jamie gave me the tools to control what I can control, and let go of things I can't. I'm a happier person, wife and stepmom. I highly recommend.."
— Sarah, Atlanta GA
You're stronger than you think.
But if you're anything like me, you need a little support to take things to the next level. You want someone whose been there. Who gets you.
I went from crying on the bathroom floor with a glass of wine, thinking about getting in my car and driving far away, to feeling confident and in control of my stepfamily life and stressors. I used to feel so overwhelmed my hands would physically shake. Now I show stepmoms how to feel confident, in control and to thrive amongst the extra stress that comes with being a stepmom. Trust me when I say
It doesn't have to feel this hard.
Have a new mindset about your triggers and stepfamily stressors
Feel more in control of your life, your reactions and the vibe of your home.
Have a clear, actionable plan to help you manage your stepfamily stressors + improve relationships
Know how to disengage and set boundaries in a way that fosters connection not disconnect
Understand your triggers in a way that will change the way you look at your stepfamily life
Be able to pick your battles and have clarity on what actually matters
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kind words
"I sometimes feel like I need a handbook on life, and a handbook on being a stepmom... and now I have one.
We don't have to be alone or feel like we have no one to turn to for support. Here is the support we need.
- Megan, Bolingbrook, IL
kind words
“I didn't think it would be worth it. It was. I didn't think it would work for me. It did. I didn't think I'd be *that* success story. I am. ”
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- CAMILLE S.
When I became a stepmom at the age of 26, I quickly realized that despite the overwhelming support for "real moms", stepmoms were still met with judgement, stereotypes and standards that are impossible to meet. No one talks about the struggles that come with being a stepmom. Not only have I set out to change that, I'm on a mission to show stepmoms how to live a KICK-ASS Life amongst the extra stress.
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i can help because i've been there
Sitting on the bathroom floor, bawling my eyes out, wondering what
the heck I was thinking marrying a man with three kids and an ex wife. That's how this whole thing started.
As a Child of Divorce and Child Protection Worker with a background in Psychology and Social Service Work, I thought I knew what I was signing up for. But as I am sure you can guess
I HAD NO FREAKING IDEA WHAT AND QUICKLY FOUND MYSELF FEELING INSECURE, OVERWHELMED AND CONSUMED.
One day, after having a complete breakdown on my bathroom floor, I decided to go to the internet for support. But my search came up short. Despite the overwhelming amount of resources for Moms, there was NOTHING for Stepmoms.
Well, that’s not necessarily true. I found a lot of b*tching, a lot of complaining and a lot of negativity. Just no solid, solution-focused advice on how to manage it all. I didn’t know a lot about step-parenting, but I knew one thing for sure: sitting around b*tching and complaining about how difficult being a stepmom is, would not make being a stepmom any easier!
So, I set out to figure it out myself.
nowI know how to help!
This coaching program is one of a kind because
I'M GOING TO SHOW YOU HOW TO BECOME THE EXPERT ON YOUR OWN STEPFAMILY LIFE.
I'm not going to tell you exactly what to do, I am going to work with you to figure out exactly what to do...
because what works for one stepmom, may not work for another!
You need a plan that's aligned with your unique stepfamily dynamic.
NOT ONLY WILL YOU LEAVE WITH A ROADMAP FOR RIGHT NOW, I'LL SHOW YOU HOW TO TWEAK THINGS AS YOUR STEPFAMILY LIFE EBBS AND FLOWS
You've noticed the ebbs and flows right?
What works with your stepkids right now, may not work with your stepkids in a couple years from now.
Your relationship with the ex may change.
Stepfamily life is fluid.
I'm going to show you how to ride the waves and pivot as things evolve.
This program includes everything you need THRIVE AS A STEPMOM
This program includes
And gives you the tools to pivot as your stepfamily life evolves.
everything
you need
TO THRIVE AS A STEPMOM
If you want this to be the year that you finally:
Feel confident + in control of your role as a stepmom
Stop getting hijacked by the latest curve ball
Have healthy relationships, even with those who don't want a healthy relationship with you
Define what being a good stepmom means to you
Make personal growth and self care a priority
Feel more balanced, and rested, and in alignment with what you want to create for your life.
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This for you if:
is
YOU'RE READY TO TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE
YOU WANT TO IMPROVE RELATIONSHIPS, FIND YOUR ROLE + MINIMIZE STEPFAMILY STRESS
YOU'RE READY TO LET GO OF HOW YOU THOUGHT IT WOULD BE AND FOCUS ON WHAT IS
It's probably for you if...
not
YOU'RE NOT WILLING TO PUT IN THE WORK
You PREFER TO BLAME OTHERS FOR HOW YOUR LIFE IS TURNING OUT
YOU'RE NOT INTO SOLUTIONS. YOU'D PREFER TO JUST VENT AND B*TCH.
Let's do this thing.
SO WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?
select the plan that works for you:
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PDF The Redefine Stepmotherhood Workbook
5 Modules with 10 + Videos
The KASM Chatroom
Lifetime Access (including any program upgrades)
6 Payments of $97
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One Payment
PDF The Redefine Stepmotherhood Workbook
5 Modules With 10 + Videos
The KASM Chatroom
Lifetime Access (including any program upgrades)
1 Payment of $499 $349
QUESTIONS
Are there live calls?
No. This is a prerecorded course.
I'm in your membership, do I get a discount?
Yes. Members get 20% off all additional resources. Your discount code is in the community. It is the members' responsibility to use the code. There will be no reimbursement for those who do not use the discount code upon signing up. Codes cannot be used for Presale or in addition to another discount. Code cannot be used in conjunction with another promo.
Can I book and additional call with Jamie?
When does the program begin?
What is your refund policy?
Do you have a payment plan?
You bet. There is an option to sign up for a discounted one-on-one coaching call when you join the program.
You'll get access as soon as you join.
Due to the nature of digital products there are NO REFUNDS.
You bet. See above.
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