HI, I’M JAMIE
It all started with my crying on the bathroom floor, wondering what the heck I was thinking becoming a stepmom.
I went to the internet for support, but was disappointed with what I found. So when I couldn't find the type of stepmom support I was looking for, I decided to create it myself.
It turns out being an "expert" on the outside and living it in real life are two very different experiences.
Professionally I'm a former Child Protection Worker wtih a degree in psychology, a post grad in Social Service work and grew up with divorced parents in a very tense co-parenting dynamic.
When I became a second wife, stepmom of three and mom of one in less than a year at the age of 26, I went all in on this stepmom thing. It didn't take me long to realize that moving to another country where they speak a different language would have been less culture shock.
Stepmom support online was plagued with negativity and ex wife bashing. I knew that wasn't going to make things any easier. I decided to figure it out myself. After a lot of work on myself and my family, I've created the type of support I needed back then.
behind the account
I wasn't always this confident about
step-motherhood. I made all the mistakes, now I am here to prevent you from doing the same.
I stopped trying to survive stepmotherhood and built a framework that works. It changed my marriage. It changed my nervous system. It’s supported over 4,500 stepmoms around the world.
Now I run a seven figure coaching business and host a top charting podcast where personal growth meets stepmom real talk. No ex bashing. No surface level tips. Just strategy, self leadership, and honest conversations.
HOW I MOVE
High Standards, Quiet Nights, Real Conversations, Routine Without Rigidity, Ownership
Calm exterior. Strategic mind. Neutral tones. Strong boundaries. I don’t do surface-level. I value depth over drama and ownership over blame. I build community, protect my peace, and clap loudly when women win. This isn’t just what I teach. It’s how I move.
What I'm
loving
Integration, not hustle. White space over busyness. Family first. Travel often. Work that scales. A room with a view. A life that doesn’t feel rushed.
What I'm
learning
That white space is productive. That discipline creates freedom. That growth requires letting go of control. That peace is a decision. That it's probably not that deep.
What I'm
not about
Reactive living. Cluttered calendars. Playing small. Blame over ownership. Energy that feels forced. Lack mindset. Always thinking the worst. Setting boundaries with the word boundary.
what I
believe
Manifesting works if you’re willing to do the work. Fear of judgment keeps more women small than failure ever will. Fear of judgment is not worth a lifetime of regret
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